To grow we must be able to have uncomfortable conversations with ourselves about our past hurts, pains, & battles. We triumph over our adversaries when we stand strong. “Galatians 5:1, NIV It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”

My Story

Have you ever been through a situation in your life where it was so bad that you shoved it so far back into your mind that you don’t even remember it? Well, I did. Not only did I shove it down, but I created this new person in me to protect the old me. Let's just say her name was Tae. She was mean, aggressive, envious, and a copycat. She never really had her own identity, she tried to latch on to people to assume their identity. She was never comfortable in her own skin and never felt good enough. I created this website in 2015 but I never pushed it any further. Not until 3/22/2023 have I written these words and truly understood what I was writing. Now I can truly become Tae’Lour and let go of Tae. I was molested by a family friend when I was young. I suppressed the feeling of being abused and assumed the feeling that it was ok. That it was ok that this was happening to me. The older I got I began to dislike who I was. So, I took a step back and asked God who am I. Why this anger why this pain, I needed him to give me a sign. He brought two situations back to me that I suppressed. The first was how as a young girl I was talked about a lot, which brought about those feelings of not being good enough and wanting to assume a new identity. The second was being molested which brought about anger and aggression. But it also affected how I chose my partners. As I write this it brings tears to my eyes, because I now know who I am. I am free, God has cleaned me and given me a new heart. I am no longer bound by negative feelings and emotions. I can fully walk in my truth; I can fully be Tae’Lour.